saya terbaca 1 artikel psl 20 kesalahan yg slalunya orng muda berumur 20-an yg buat. saya teringin bandingkan dgn diri sy.
20. Working for money, not for building your dreams
Alkisah working experience saya, my first job sy keje kt company yg racist and second job bekerja di company kedekut. sy x sempat nk dream pape selain get out of those company and get a new job. saya blm nk bekerja utk duit n currently, my own future is vague to me so sy xd pape dreams. saya just memilih jalan yg selamat, xnk kecewakan diri.
19. Thinking that this is the right time to fall in love
nop, i never did that kind of mistake. sy x jatuh cinta dgn sape2. saya tau ni masa utk membina diri sendiri. i spend my valuable time for myself. xd masa nk buang masa dgn orng lain.
18. Trying to act like the man rather than learning how to become one
maksudnya berlagak pandai. saya x kisah share certain benda yg mmg saya tau n mmg sy confirm. benda yg xtau sy x komen pape. x bermaksud sy terima komen orng. sy akn alami sendiri n bru percaya. mcm orng yg x prnh blaja akaun blh kata career tu susah, xd life or whatever. saya just angguk setuju but they never been in the same boat so why should i believe what they say?
17. Making friends instead of earning trust
this is one of the thing that i'm struggling right now. i want to make friend but i just don't know where to find them. i know sometimes it's kindda lonely but seriously saya xtau mcm mna nk cari kawan. so, buat masa skrng, dgn kwn yg sy ada ni, i'm earning their trust. now i know thats a mistake
16. Not caring because you only live once — that is for fools
i'm not that fool. bagi sy orng yg ckp "hidup cuma skali so kita enjoy dlu" tu orng yg hv nothing better to do with their life. lari dri agama n motif kehidupan, xd cita2 or wawasan or even dreams. hehehe i'm taking this time to spend with my friends because somehow i know this is my only time with friends. and i don't call it as enjoying.
15. Make all your wants. needs.
i'm earning and literally trying to live with those money. i know the value of money than most of nowadays teenagers who simply goes for parents money. i know the difference between wants and needs
14. Forgetting that family comes first.
yup, i'm doing this mistake. but once again, my point is, my future will be 95% of family and 3% of strangers and only 2% of friends. so i don't feel guilty to give priority to my friends for now.
13. Blaming anyone else but yourself for anything in life
i do blame one of my family member for some unfavorable decision that i was forced to make. but i know i'm walking on my path on my own will. i'm ready to take any kind of blame and liable to whatever happen. i'm in a position i can't blame anyone but me and i know that. i create my own problem and i find my own solution. after all, i'm 21 n above. "baby adult"
12. Getting comfortable like you actually deserve down time
yup, i think i'm doing this mistake. i think nothing more left than getting married and start a family after this, as what everyone expect. i might be wrong but i don't know.
11. Sticking with jobs that didn't teach you anything
nop, it's obvious that the first thing i do after joining a work is find another job!
10. Following the crowd instead of forging against it
i'm not following the crowd. i know some people label me as rebellious. i'm doing something that no one did in my family. i don't care. i'm not gonna regret of this life. i don't like trends
9. Failing to energize those around you
yup, thats me. i hv too many things going on. i don't know which one is the way out since i've taken the road only a few taken. everything is vague and confusing. at least, i'm helping those who tries to follow my path. saving them from fall into the same trap i fell. when i reached the destination, i'll start to energize perhaps.
8. Think you need to stop learning and growing
nop, i know everything is still vague and i'm still learning
7. Thinking that anyone will ever pay you back
yup, thats my bad. but i don't think thats a reason to stop doing good thing.
6. Spending your money on women who aren't escort
erk! with my income now, i'm becoming stingy. no spend for anyone!
5. Holding on to friends that waste your time and add no value to your life
i might have this kind of friend but i'm not spoiling my life like them.
4. Forgetting about the piggy bank and spending every dollar you have
nop, i never forget bout my saving. it's just that nothing really left to save (T_________________T)
i'm feeling really bad right now!
3. (numb 3 is inappropriate and not applicable)
2. Dating unstable person with mommy and daddy issues
~ not applicable ~
1.Forgetting that karma
nop i never. in fact, i'm wondering how karma missed a lots of name in my list.
20. Working for money, not for building your dreams
Alkisah working experience saya, my first job sy keje kt company yg racist and second job bekerja di company kedekut. sy x sempat nk dream pape selain get out of those company and get a new job. saya blm nk bekerja utk duit n currently, my own future is vague to me so sy xd pape dreams. saya just memilih jalan yg selamat, xnk kecewakan diri.
19. Thinking that this is the right time to fall in love
nop, i never did that kind of mistake. sy x jatuh cinta dgn sape2. saya tau ni masa utk membina diri sendiri. i spend my valuable time for myself. xd masa nk buang masa dgn orng lain.
18. Trying to act like the man rather than learning how to become one
maksudnya berlagak pandai. saya x kisah share certain benda yg mmg saya tau n mmg sy confirm. benda yg xtau sy x komen pape. x bermaksud sy terima komen orng. sy akn alami sendiri n bru percaya. mcm orng yg x prnh blaja akaun blh kata career tu susah, xd life or whatever. saya just angguk setuju but they never been in the same boat so why should i believe what they say?
17. Making friends instead of earning trust
this is one of the thing that i'm struggling right now. i want to make friend but i just don't know where to find them. i know sometimes it's kindda lonely but seriously saya xtau mcm mna nk cari kawan. so, buat masa skrng, dgn kwn yg sy ada ni, i'm earning their trust. now i know thats a mistake
16. Not caring because you only live once — that is for fools
i'm not that fool. bagi sy orng yg ckp "hidup cuma skali so kita enjoy dlu" tu orng yg hv nothing better to do with their life. lari dri agama n motif kehidupan, xd cita2 or wawasan or even dreams. hehehe i'm taking this time to spend with my friends because somehow i know this is my only time with friends. and i don't call it as enjoying.
15. Make all your wants. needs.
i'm earning and literally trying to live with those money. i know the value of money than most of nowadays teenagers who simply goes for parents money. i know the difference between wants and needs
14. Forgetting that family comes first.
yup, i'm doing this mistake. but once again, my point is, my future will be 95% of family and 3% of strangers and only 2% of friends. so i don't feel guilty to give priority to my friends for now.
13. Blaming anyone else but yourself for anything in life
i do blame one of my family member for some unfavorable decision that i was forced to make. but i know i'm walking on my path on my own will. i'm ready to take any kind of blame and liable to whatever happen. i'm in a position i can't blame anyone but me and i know that. i create my own problem and i find my own solution. after all, i'm 21 n above. "baby adult"
12. Getting comfortable like you actually deserve down time
yup, i think i'm doing this mistake. i think nothing more left than getting married and start a family after this, as what everyone expect. i might be wrong but i don't know.
11. Sticking with jobs that didn't teach you anything
nop, it's obvious that the first thing i do after joining a work is find another job!
10. Following the crowd instead of forging against it
i'm not following the crowd. i know some people label me as rebellious. i'm doing something that no one did in my family. i don't care. i'm not gonna regret of this life. i don't like trends
9. Failing to energize those around you
yup, thats me. i hv too many things going on. i don't know which one is the way out since i've taken the road only a few taken. everything is vague and confusing. at least, i'm helping those who tries to follow my path. saving them from fall into the same trap i fell. when i reached the destination, i'll start to energize perhaps.
8. Think you need to stop learning and growing
nop, i know everything is still vague and i'm still learning
7. Thinking that anyone will ever pay you back
yup, thats my bad. but i don't think thats a reason to stop doing good thing.
6. Spending your money on women who aren't escort
erk! with my income now, i'm becoming stingy. no spend for anyone!
5. Holding on to friends that waste your time and add no value to your life
i might have this kind of friend but i'm not spoiling my life like them.
4. Forgetting about the piggy bank and spending every dollar you have
nop, i never forget bout my saving. it's just that nothing really left to save (T_________________T)
i'm feeling really bad right now!
3. (numb 3 is inappropriate and not applicable)
2. Dating unstable person with mommy and daddy issues
~ not applicable ~
1.Forgetting that karma
nop i never. in fact, i'm wondering how karma missed a lots of name in my list.
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